This is a famous myth or fact that love marraiges does not run smoothly... And being of this century took it as a bakwaas.. bole to rubbish its just that people around or say society has this myth. But eventually i tried to analyse the fact if that is so how and why things fail to work out and vice versa.
This is quite strange at times how could a person just go and sleep with any guy or girl whom he or she has not known,... thanks to mobile phones and internet no one is a stranger except our own family members because we get to spend least tym with them because we don't have enough time to spare after all our chats. So coming back to the core and the ingredients missing in the recipes. Accordingly a love marraige should go on smoothly as people are well aware of each other. BUT arrange marraiges are more healthy and fruitful because as you are going to meet a stranger or say a person least known to you. to namak(salt) thoda zada hogaya love mein and missed in arrange that is fulfilled with time in the course of knowing each other. Bole to after marrying a person you have always known and seemed perfect according to you there is nothing may be least things left to be known about each other and expectations rise which looses the charisma of the bond and when not coming up to the expectations things start getting worst.
whereas arrange marraige brings with it a blank canvas to draw the picture you want the person to draw for you and like wise expectations are least except hopes to be there....
No conclusions to make,,, but an inference to draw things look good the way they are made.... Almighty has sent each one us in a pair. Respect your Spouse even he or she is not up to you but at the end is a dignified person who is also alone if you aren't there...
This is quite strange at times how could a person just go and sleep with any guy or girl whom he or she has not known,... thanks to mobile phones and internet no one is a stranger except our own family members because we get to spend least tym with them because we don't have enough time to spare after all our chats. So coming back to the core and the ingredients missing in the recipes. Accordingly a love marraige should go on smoothly as people are well aware of each other. BUT arrange marraiges are more healthy and fruitful because as you are going to meet a stranger or say a person least known to you. to namak(salt) thoda zada hogaya love mein and missed in arrange that is fulfilled with time in the course of knowing each other. Bole to after marrying a person you have always known and seemed perfect according to you there is nothing may be least things left to be known about each other and expectations rise which looses the charisma of the bond and when not coming up to the expectations things start getting worst.
whereas arrange marraige brings with it a blank canvas to draw the picture you want the person to draw for you and like wise expectations are least except hopes to be there....
No conclusions to make,,, but an inference to draw things look good the way they are made.... Almighty has sent each one us in a pair. Respect your Spouse even he or she is not up to you but at the end is a dignified person who is also alone if you aren't there...
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