Wisdom Unvieled: a puzzled match

Wisdom Unvieled: a puzzled match: Love v/s Infatuation He smiled at me whenever I pass by his sight. He use to come early from his tution because he knew at this tim...

a puzzled match

Love v/s Infatuation

He smiled at me whenever I pass by his sight. He use to come early from his tution because he knew at this time I would come on terrace.

 This was a special feeling for an 8^th standard girl because somewhere or the other she was liking the attention given to her. Things just pass by the same way for few weeks, the attention was given more and likely it was enjoyed more. This scenario  was a direct  effect for the revolution in the hormones in either cases. The liberation of oxytocin here makes one feel  thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. And the poor teenager terms it as love and that too there first love. That girl thought the same too, but in a time span of 4 months she felt that was not it, that she wants. so her gestures started changing  towards the guy, unknowingly about the feelings the guy may have. When the chemical flood dries up, the relationship either moves into a loving romantic one or there is disillusionment, and the relationship ends.

Gone by the books several love quotes you get to read, hear lot of stuff which we generally regard as philosophical is termed love officially. But how could it be so.. just imagine a couple who is arrange married just not knowing each other they purposely force themselves to love each other  be it in bed or by heart. The love that may be imposed or you are left for no other choice to choose from. Certainly makes you feel the need of acceptance(in Indian context). I guess when the feeling when Acceptance is labeling someone as "okay" and having no particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. You pose no condition on whether you will love them or not.

 A famous fun quote reflects a meaning  no love before 20. I perhaps take it as till then learn from others mistake before making a blunder yourself :P but not making it a bore for you to read just wanna say do not play with others feelings get to know what your heart says and be clear with your outlook….

Till then just flirt till you get the right one…

P.S. applicable for both guys and girls :P

Array of phases yet a single face

Array of phases yet a single face….

Exactly Phase and Face are quite similar to pronounce perhaps are different in varied contexts…

Before you get into my shoe to look forth with my vision, just a few situations to imagine your persona is in different groups.. in simple terms bole to just read next few lines and envision yourself in those state of affairs (consider age group 16+ to 25).

Standing before a dignitary and With a group of friends.

With parents.

With some kids.

Having passed school or just say looking at people just preceding your age group.

Going  for an interview or going for a date.

Reading a course book or reading a novel..

Looking at someone else girlfriend/boyfriend and someone else looks at yours… :P

No! No! No!!!! don’t stop reading …

 I know you’re a bit confused to get what is said..

 Look from the above situations, just see how many different roles a person plays when stuck in the above mentioned few situations… We are amazing actors and undoubtfully the best one from the ones play reel roles on the screen. In different situations we certainly react the way our mind counters or perhaps how we inhibit..

 Just imagine the situation when you get allured to other persons girlfriend or boyfriend (ab ye mat sochna k nahi I am true to my love :P I know people are… but I just said…”Just Allured”) and when someone looks at your girlfriend or boyfriend :P …. simple different phases but with the same face!!!!

 Ok another situation….

 Just imagine your deen talking to a student and talking to one of his friends… talking to his friend he may say yaar bada hectic hai… on the other hand he may somewhere declare the use of word yaar as an abuse or ill mannered…

To hamari baat ka saar ye he ki…(the conclusion to the above said is) we are combination of multiple personalities engrossing within us a variety of characters that become certainly active when trigerred.. so just pick up the best character and apply it to every varied circumstance and drop the anxieties that may be caused due to multiple situations with multiple handling flavors. Just introspect and feel the precious person in you and lead a peaceful being….