Love v/s Infatuation
He smiled at me whenever I pass by his sight. He use to come
early from his tution because he knew at this time I would come on terrace.
This was a special
feeling for an 8th standard girl because somewhere or the other she
was liking the attention given to her. Things just pass by the same way for few
weeks, the attention was given more and likely it was enjoyed more. This scenario was a direct
effect for the revolution in the hormones in either cases. The liberation
of oxytocin here makes one feel thrilled, but not happy, wanting to
trust, yet suspicious. And the poor teenager terms it as love and that too
there first love. That girl thought the same too, but in a time span of 4
months she felt that was not it, that she wants. so her gestures started
changing towards the guy, unknowingly about
the feelings the guy may have. When the chemical flood dries up, the
relationship either moves into a loving romantic one or there is disillusionment,
and the relationship ends.
Gone by the books several love quotes you get to read, hear
lot of stuff which we generally regard as philosophical is termed love
officially. But how could it be so.. just imagine a couple who is arrange
married just not knowing each other they purposely force themselves to love
each other be it in bed or by heart. The
love that may be imposed or you are left for no other choice to choose from. Certainly
makes you feel the need of acceptance(in Indian context). I guess when the feeling
when Acceptance is labeling someone as "okay" and having no
particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. You
pose no condition on whether you will love them or not.
A famous fun quote
reflects a meaning no love before 20. I perhaps
take it as till then learn from others mistake before making a blunder yourself
:P but not making it a bore for you to read just wanna say do not play with
others feelings get to know what your heart says and be clear with your outlook….
Till then just flirt till you get the right one…
P.S. applicable for both guys and girls :P
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