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“This silly thing if you do today you are going to regret this whole of your life”, I said these words to two different people in two different situations, eventually in the same hour of the day… The thing that was familiar in both the stories was Love. Before anything else I would love to share my take on a boy’s behavior  before and after he actually fells in true love. I guess in the early days of their Adam’s apple start functioning well,,,when each guy have a mere perception about themselves to be a casanova and can just flirt and get along with any girl whom they wish to,,, but all these experiences or say self –confidence go in vain when one day he actually realize that they are in love with the one they never thought of, not only thought of falling for that girl but also the fact that they can fall in love. Now that roaring tiger turns into a really sweet and a speaking one. At that moment he cannot express what he feels, merely with the fear of loosing the one,,, and also the graph of confidence went low extremely low in this situation and then the guy seeks for a supporter to boost his morale….

When one of my friend got trapped into this situation he made me say “This silly thing if you do today you are going to regret this whole of your life”, I wanted him to speak his heart out because I believe in not to fall under the circumstances in your life that make you  say I Wish That Time I Would Have Done That Thing.. No possibilities of coming If in any case. So atleast give a try to your heart once no matter what the reply would be.

Parents all across this planet wish to enrich their kids with ultimate virtues and lead their life in best way of their vision, they only lead their children to take their own verdict of choosing when alternatives appear. On the contrary this verdict is not acknowledged when they have to chose their life partner. The other situation that made me speak the same words were, when my friends family disagreed for her love to be given a name and a relationship. Parents do not see that they are seeking for a permission rather taking a wrong step.. and that poor friend of mine was afraid of loosing her love and at the same time wishing for a permission from her parents because her virtues do not allow to go in the wrong direction.. At that time she needs to take a stand, a stand to speak for what she actually wish otherwise she would have to regret and do not bring forth the condition to say If at that time I would have done this it would not make me regret..

Never bring a situation in  your life that makes an IF or I wish clause ever,, keep faith in your self, just give a try, a try to your heart, a try to your soul that may make your life happier than you ever thought. If a no received in answer do not feel afraid as it is a move for you to know a better end to your life atleast you came out of an illusion.